a double edge sword

when two realised people have an argument

two ways of behaving :

one is going to pick his phone and call all people 10 miles around,
and backbite the person,

suddenly, he got amnesic that the other is also God within
how convenient to forget that ! hey, yes you have to shove it
under the carpet, just for a while, of course,
to allow yourself to "complain" of your misery to the listener

and the listener is invited to take side for one ego (the one who is backbiting or slandering)
against another ego

of course, the listener is seduced to this possibility
for the backbiter or slanderer is putting seed of devaluation in his consciousness
about the other realised person


while pretending to only seek someone
to find a solution to his misery

LIE
fake

only solution known :
meditation.
as if talk is going to solve anything
talk is only mental
and is a helpful tool
but not a one you can hung onto
for hours and hours

but still that is acceptable (to backbite)
because both are playing the innocent ones
and justifying their "hurt feelings"

still conveniently forgetting
that everyone is One Spirit
but to hell, this "common sacred knowledge"
who cares? isn't it ? LOL

in this option, the realised person had a fight with another realised soul,
and he chose to gain support for his ego against another one.
ok, he CHOSE to increase his impurities.


second choice,
the realised person, has an argumentation with another realised one
and she decides to FACE the problem
ADMIT it
admit the pain in the ass effect of it ;)

and then,
USES meditation,
this is CALLED purification

and this has NOTHING to do
in terms of value
with "complaining" like in the scenario 1.

in the 1st scenario,
you revert back to your time of ignorance
when you were NOT realised
and keep on severing ties
while you give lip service of Unity in Spirit.

but when called to meditate
impossible!
why? because the ego KNOWS it will die
so it will fight back to NOT meditate
simple.

in that version,
the listener and the backbiter/slanderer are AT LOSS

poor ones,
but they know it not.

in the second version,
and yes you guess right,
:) that is me:))

the realised person
is happy to see what angers her
for she then gets the opportunity
to KNOW what is to be PURIFIED
and then she reverts back to meditation.

therefore,
tension is GREAT
for it helps you to see your own darkess emerging
and you, of course, SEE it in the other

the other is a mirror to you

and you USE that mirror
to PURIFY yourself.

funny, how the other one,
could MISS that point,
though he is the VERY mirror
who helped me to purify myself
and is thus a means of salvation to me
he is himself
a means of LOSS for his own self!

that is the double edge sword.

ok, let's be honest
there is no he,
it was a she

well, after a second thought,
there is no other

there is only ME ;)
ps : after the purification 


so to conclude,
there are those who know the solution AND apply
and those who know but desert it

it is HOW you seperate people in two groups
natural selection
by CHOICE.

kiss:x