In the little fire lit house I could see Fatima (pbuh)
it was said "She is not the Queen of Heaven for nothing".
Though her destiny was to marry Ali (pbuh),
Had she not guarded her virginity by being cautious of the man/suitor who presented himself
in front of her door
the marriage with Ali would not have materialised.
She kept the door shut to him.
From there the lesson that applies is that spiritual people
should guard their spirituality
when at their door any worldly suitor shows up.
Spiritual people marry the heavenly chosen one,
and guarding one's innocence is one's own responsibility
till the promised auspicious match happen.
Going for a person who does not cultivate what I would. call an earthly marriage,
however nice the person is, would be signing one's own spiritual death.
Kiss