Wednesday 25 June 2014

Collegues and workplace

Some rules at job place,

you go to work and then you go away
so don't linger your thoughts on colleagues/job AFTER the workplace.

ALWAYS settle them ON THE SPOT
in WORDS and energically speaking.
after too late to settle them.

some lessons i learned :

if a colleague misbehave :

-know it is CHILDISH
-let it go
-if you can't, then raise your energy, turn it at the belly - center of wellness

-don't hesitate to use the light sword to remove them from your vital space lol

-don't pay attention to them
for they crave for attention.
it is just energy sucking purpose.

had i ever told that i dislike stupid people ? lol
i mean once you advise them in every possible God created way and they still not get it,
let them be as they are.

let them be with their own well earned consciousness!

-send them from heart some love,
yes hard to do,
but you will see becoming even more irritated!
because they were expecting hate in its stead.
so it is a funny revenge for you!:)

-and forgive, let go the thoughts, it means;
for Forgiveness, is a powerful force
that will put into movement other forces ON your behalf.

if you take control
then God let you with your own issues!

try it and then be happy!


Dealing with your supervisor :

-should stay in the middle, remain balance 
-do not harass them, they are busy people
-do a list of what you need once,
and once you see him/her you hand her the paper.

like this your job is done.

-and then forget!

up to them to manage it. They manage their team for harmony sake,
want less clash. so up to them. you do not butt into their management job.
nor try to straighten up your colleagues. for it is not your job. EVEN though you have the awareness of the solution. but very few people want solution.

had i said that i don't like stupid people ? lol

because we tend to project,
we think that people are / want to be like we are , aiming high

but it is not the case
so instead of helping them,
you are actually hurting their ego.

waste of time
a sign is enough for a wise person,
do it once, twice.
if they don't get it,
again leave them with their consciousness
and if they want to learn it the hard way,
so much the better for them!


-don't stay with workplace thoughts AFTER job place, 
for you are not being paid for this overtime :)

-don't befriend colleagues
means not not to be friendly,
but again, do not project yourself on the others
you may have befriending qualities, others not.they may not be sincere.

therefore, expect NOT same goodness from them.
they learn at their pace or not.

you do your ON THE SPOT good action
and expect no more.

-do your job and go

-if your colleagues wants you to react,
you better choose to remain silent, and ignore such person
-or at least say kind words, which will make this person even more angry lol
- SHOW OFF , YES, SHOW OFF your happiness,

for you have RIGHT to be happy!
dont' be dull :)



In bold characters are the advice given by a colleague on my workplace
i was astonished how her advice were word for word
what a realised person told me!

shockingly exactly the same!

was he talking through her? i wonder
but what a sharp and precise person.

i think, as you KNOW your goal and REMEMBER them
THEN you can fix yourself some rules in a messy situation.

thanks to her
and above all to my realised loving friend :)

thanks to my ever stupid colleague
for thanks to her i realised
how not to project myself on others

and above all,
that what i liked not in my colleague
was my own issue that i needed to settle.

ok, a bit of it has been settled,
but most of it remain to be done.

pff! so much work,
i prefer the soft way though
no more working with a stupid colleague! please! God?!

hahaha
kiss:x

To the Beautiful You

i would like emptiness to replace all the consciousnesses which put me away / distanced from his, from the spirit's level


 Movies are great inspiring tools. Especially the Korean ones, for they are quite near the soul.


Here are some songs from the movie : To the Beautiful You





"if you are conscious of a thing, it tends to get in the way. so emptiness is the path."
When the athlete is training for high jump and need to empty his mind.


"instead of being messy about things just be cool and fun." :)

Joy is the Power

joy is the power.

means

what gives you joy?
then, imagine it.
and you are not alone.
for joy moves other powers in the universe who will gather together to make it happens.

as Joy is the Power

and whether it happens or not, timing is to God.
but you did your share.

Some reminders about and after meditation

Some reminders :

About mainting our level of purification
after collective meditaiton :


the purification is like an image, it is arising and passing away like a wave.
only intensive practice after a collective push/meditaiton can maintain this purified state : the realisation that only the awareness is stable.
 
See the success for it to happen :
see them fine and feel the joy and stop all worries

what counts is prophets' message : absolute source and not manifestation.
they came not to teach manifestation but source/ source is awareness.

ayah ul kursi
means the Great Ayah/Verse of the Quran :
The Throne Verse:


Bismillaah ar-Rahman ar-Raheem
Allahu la illaha illa hu
Wal Hayyul Qayyum
La te huzuhu sinetun wala nawmun
Lahu ma fissemawati wa ma fil'ardi
Men thallathiy yeshfe'u indehu illa biznih
Ya'lemu ma beyne eydiyhim
wa ma halfehum
wa la yuhiytune
bishey'in min ilmihi
illa bima sha-a wasia kursiyyuhu semavati wal'ard
Wa la yeuduhu hifzuhuma wa hu wal aliy ul aziym




"Allah! There is no god but He,
Al-Hayy (the Ever-living), Al-Qayyum (the Self-subsisting, Eternal).
No slumber can seize Him nor sleep.
His are all things in the heavens and on earth.
Who is there that can intercede in His presence except as He permitteth?
He knoweth what appeareth to His creatures as before or after or behind them.
Nor shall they compass aught of His knowledge except as He willeth.
His Kursi doth extend over the heavens and the earth,
and He feeleth no fatigue in guarding and preserving them.
He is Aliyy (the Most High), Al-Adhiim (the Supreme in glory)."



What is Ever Living? Self Subsisting and Eternal?
it is Pure Awareness.

In the french book Parfum de Devotion
it is said Shakti brings you to the Throne of Allah

Shakti is not God 
it is The Power of God that brings your attention/you
to sahasrara 
where the spirit of the Heart is liberated Above Head/thoughts
and is thus Pure Awareness.


if prophets had come for religion itself, which is now seen as a set of prescription about hell and heaven, the first muslims who died in the beginning of islam while being persecuted would not have been considered muslim by this standard, for they died before the religion was completed.

Prophets came to show the way to the Source
and sets of prescriptions were a given method to thread the path
towards self realisation at best, at least to remain as much centered as one can.

Jodha Akbar

Ah! I loved watching Jodha Akbar,
so much to say. may be will update this post later.

I loved this citation about the winning,
when the Queen ask to his Husband how he is so sure about it,
and He answered :

car notre dieu aura gagné votre coeur ! Akbar
For our God would have won your Heart

this definitely is a Great (Akbar) God lol!
The One that wins heart, hence the greatness.

and it is all the more great to hear that,
when you know the Queen Jodha is from another religion (Hinduism)
and the King Akbar is Muslim.

as it was the Queen intial challenge that Akbar manage to win her heart,
her people's heart

when he attributes the winning to his God
that is all the more in line with her request
while defeating the competition of both religions
for it is a winning detached from human use of (greedy) power

for it is a winning that unified both people
not dividing them one above the other.

hence you see
that divine greatness lies in winning people's heart.

too cool a movie!






Full  version :
Ah i need to buy fencing stuff so that i may resume it, has been two years that i practised not :)
i need to be ready to knock down my husband to be hehehe ;)


















Songs from City Hunter


song : love is feeling (of soul characteristics)

hey, i liked watching City Hunter
so here is a few songs i liked :



This one is Epic!

 Like a preparation for a deep arising!
 spear heading its way to the unknown...







This one is all the more cute and funny when you hear it afterwards : )









The Conference of the Birds

Great references to be read :

The thoughts depicted in `Attar's works reflects the whole evolution of the Sufi movement. The starting point is the idea that the body-bound soul's awaited release and return to its source in the other world can be experienced during the present life in mystic union attainable through inward purification.[9] In explaining his thoughts, 'Attar uses material not only from specifically Sufi sources but also from older ascetic legacies. Although his heroes are for the most part Sufis and ascetics, he also introduces stories from historical chronicles, collections of anecdotes, and all types of high-esteemed literature.[2] His talent for perception of deeper meanings behind outward appearances enables him to turn details of everyday life into illustrations of his thoughts. 

source : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attar_of_Nishapur

Attar's work :


Manteq aṭ-Ṭayr

Led by the hoopoe, the birds of the world set forth in search of their king, Simurgh. Their quest takes them through seven valleys :

In the first of which a hundred difficulties assail them. They undergo many trials as they try to free themselves of what is precious to them and change their state. Once successful and filled with longing, they ask for wine to dull the effects of dogma, belief, and unbelief on their lives.

In the second valley, the birds give up reason for love and, with a thousand hearts to sacrifice, continue their quest for discovering the Simurgh.

The third valley confounds the birds, especially when they discover that their worldly knowledge has become completely useless and their understanding has become ambivalent. There are different ways of crossing this Valley, and all birds do not fly alike. Understanding can be arrived at variously—some have found the Mihrab, others the idol.
The fourth valley is introduced as the valley of detachment, i.e., detachment from desire to possess and the wish to discover. The birds begin to feel that they have become part of a universe that is detached from their physical recognizable reality. In their new world, the planets are as minute as sparks of dust and elephants are not distinguishable from ants.

It is not until they enter the fifth valley that they realize that unity and multiplicity are the same. And as they have become entities in a vacuum with no sense of eternity. More importantly, they realize that God is beyond unity, multiplicity, and eternity.

Stepping into the sixth valley, the birds become astonished at the beauty of the Beloved. Experiencing extreme sadness and dejection, they feel that they know nothing, understand nothing. They are not even aware of themselves.
Only thirty birds reach the abode of the Simurgh. But there is no Simurgh anywhere to see. Simurgh's chamberlain keeps them waiting for Simurgh long enough for the birds to figure out that they themselves are the si (thirty) murgh (bird).

The seventh valley is the valley of deprivation, forgetfulness, dumbness, deafness, and death. The present and future lives of the thirty successful birds become shadows chased by the celestial Sun. And themselves, lost in the Sea of His existence, are the Simurgh.[19]

[edit]The Seven Valleys of spirituality(conference of the birds)

Attar has described the seven stages of spirituality in the conference of the birds:
  • The Valley of Quest
  • The Valley of Love
  • The Valley of Understanding
  • The Valley of Independence and Detachment
  • The Valley of Unity
  • The Valley of Astonishment and Bewilderment
  • The Valley of Deprivation and Death