I have some very funny encounter
I was going out to cinema with a long no see cousin
he came from abroad
like a sun arising
lol as mom said
anyway,
the very night
i received a phone call
of a very curious couple
who asked me what 's up
and as i am quite a sincere person
i told the surprising encounter i had today
but you see
the lady was NOT expecting me
to speak of it
for
she and her friend
expected otherwise
especially because
they happend to see me at the cinema
with that guy
lol
that they were
trying to categorise
why?
why is it so important to categorise a he?
what the challenge is here at stake for them?
when i see one of them
with some other guy or girl
do i categorise their 'partner'
so they calculation went
as such
a brother?
no way too old
a father?
let's see no, not old enough
a secret lover?
you mean another one than her fiancé?!
bingo!
this is how human mind works
PROJECTION
we project on others
OF WHAT WE ARE
if our mind is unclean
due to our OWN weirdo
experience of crossing limits of morality
then we are SUSPICIOUS of the other
indeed
for we suspect from the other
the worse
especially if we don't EXPECT
the other in a new situation
why?
because it reassures their inner guilt :
oh yea!
then i am not the only one
to have a "romantic affair" after cinema
hahaha
so that is what they were thinking
ONE ALWAYS PROJECT ON THE OTHER
ACCORDING TO ONE'S OWN LIFE HYGIENE
MORALITY
AND ETHICS
SPIRITUALITY IN ACTION
and so on
remember the story of the saint and of the sinner?
two guys at night time met
one was a sinner going to night club to have some "romantic affair" after lol
and the other a saint going to some prayer retreat
the latter seeing the other
thought
"what a good guy,
look at night time going to pray to God"
and the sinner
look at the other
said
"lol, look at him
playing the saint,
i caught you
are you are no more worthy than me
you are planning to chase women
in a hidden way
under your priest garb"
see?
same here
world is a mess
because of the JUDGEMENT of people
which most of the time is ERRONEOUS
and ONLY a projection of their OWN
life ethics, hygiene, moral and low level of spirituality
on the spot
i laughed
after i was seriously angry at such a behavior
but after i remembered
me too i would be judging if i linger on that feeling
therefore i chose to laugh them and let go
so what count for me
is that i had a fun time with my sun
my dear beloved cousin
not seen since so long
he was so happy from me and my family warm welcome
that he invited me to join him
whenever i plan to
you bet my dear cousin
you touched my heart with your heatfelt thanks email
for you are one of the rarest person
whose heart is touched by feeling of appreciation
for very few people
have the ability to receive that which is below the surface/the material
that which is deeper
and that is called a loving feeling of the heart
just to be able to FEEL
this warmth from the other
this ability
to catch the feeling and care
secondly, to admit being touched by it
and to appreciate it
and merely thank the person
is one of the most beautiful gift of sincerity i have ever received lately
because THAT IS AN AUTHENTIC RELATIONSHIP
such people
when they will get their self realisation
will be WAY further than those who have it lately
why?
because they cultivated below the surface
by using heart for authenticity
than for just being material
under PRETEXT of imposing high standards to others
while themselves being low in spirituality
and even fearing its deepness
due to their western conditioning
the LAST will be the FIRST :x
