People live in ignorance
As long as they are not either
realised or have guidance.
Guidance say in islam/sufism
All good is from God
ie not me superior to you
and everything else please forgive me
so it does not accumulate in ego.
Realisation
you should KNOW
as yogi not to stick to your standards
as appearances are ignorance.
From the eyes of the ego
and for the purpose of the sharing
what error and hence ignorance fruit is.
Many years ago
and still now
I had no clue about difference in people upbringing
I assumed as I was brought up same with others
ie never we never make guests pay
for food, accommodation, car ride
Even now, if the person stays for weeks
Not because we would hesitate at some point
it is because it is natural
Providence provides
we enjoy and naturally share
However
once I had no job and yet kept buying monthly transportation card
for my metro rides
But the car was empty
and hence they thought good to ask her to come along
like this car fuel is shared
and proposed me to go back in car home with them
I accepted thinking oh they want company for
long ride home to be more enjoyable
and during the ride I was hinted to pay for the car share
of course I paid
but my first impression was
I joined for fun and end up paying double
my own card and their car plus gathered their judgment against me.
Their main point was how to bring ride cost down
mine was let's join them for fun
They idea was
she had no means to pay for train so let's bring in car and get their own costs reduced
and mine was why am I paying double, why not being clear since beginning this was car pooling?
The whole system, insight is flawed
Because people live their life
projecting , assuming, judging
this is the way of the material world
If you follow guidance you would know
either you give by pleasure or you ask and then agree on a 'contract' you enter into
But ignorance is somnolence
and projection and of course we are not raised according to the same standards
I would often think as I am freely giving
same goes with others. Wrong assumption.
Likewise
During holidays I kept gifting and tipping money
to hotel staff and any other servants
as I know they need it most
However my refusal to take part in
one sided conclusion costs
where I am EXPECTED to gift because everyone has to
with my blunt no, make them think I am stingy
Of course they would think that
They did not even know my tipping and hence lack of money at the end of the stay
Plus zero communication, just a third party sent to collect money
without informing me prior to it, asking me if I agree etc.
Likewise
I would keep giving to those who need
money for food on monthly basis
just because I know whether I have money or not
job or not
I have to as it is natural.
From islam guidance, if you are not brought up so
or have not this innate guidance;
it is also said never stop giving when you start
keep it up, even if your circumstances change
as the needy ones, still are needy. Do not make them lose hope.
However most of people
would make assumptions and judge
as their ego gets hurt by not seeing me ply to their wished orders
Same people who would be ignoring me conveniently the rest of the time
and impose a tax gift to pay for one of them
why?
That's how it works.
I don't play politically correct
nor ply to such artificial games.
And very often, myself included don't know why I choose to do so
later I know why I did what I did or say what I said.
On spot, I only followed my inner guidance or feeling.
I give where my guidance system leads me to
And I am certainly not a cash machine
if you think so
then you are in
for me to break your world very soon
Like a stone thrown to a mirror
so beware.
Same goes for one yogi
who was sick and old
and I gifted him years ago
Royal Jelly
The real stuff
That paste is very good to gain back your strength
that was the pure one. Tiny quantity ie 20g may be
but extremely efficient and of course expensive.
Seeing the small tube
he laughed at it,
thinking what a funny and stingy gift
probably never used it.
Of course I saw it all
perceived it all
and knew his health will keep failing
Gifts, accept them when you receive them
As you are not receiving something material only
but the blessings/barakah associated to it
And of course do not make fun of the giver..
You don't like it
well give it to someone else
Keep sharing
as a charming lady said.
Even my own materialistic near ones
rare but it exist
would expect luxury expensive gifts
from Brands that are LUXURIOUS
Do you know these same brands
if not most of them
are so unkarmic?
Loaded with hellish energy?
Same one you put on your body
and vibrate your body water with it?
Pure ignorance
and I say it objectively
blind insight
and again, I say it as a matter of fact
This post is meant to raise awareness
Either be simple, do stuff for JOY
or if you want to judge
then be prepared to be ignored by life blessings
and wonder why still in pain with ailing health and such.
