Mass responsibility

ok
when society sees something which goes against its rule
society/mass religions or any other organisation
first reaction as we all have is to give lessons/make nice talk to give other the lesson
that what you are doing is bad.

at a smaller level it is also what happens in schools, families.

before i used to wonder why in court of justice
justice tries to understand what is motivating a criminal to do what he does
i used to think what a loss of time
for fact is he did wrong and he needs to be condemn.

but no, what is good,
is that society/a mass/ a collectivity is responsible

for if it failed this person
instead of judging it right away and making him go to silence
it has to LISTEN to him
and see where they failed!

for society is there to give lessons of morality
when people deviate from its set rules
but WHERE was the society, this very society WHERE was it
when the INDIVIDUAL was in trouble?

oh so ready to jump to give lesson
but blind to other's misery when meeting individual
and then when this very individual crosses the line
we judge and stone them
be it with true stones in middle east countries or with verbal stoning there
that is same
we divide and become suddenly a master
over a slave which has no good manners.

but had one forgotten that this very mastery image that we display in judgement
is plain bluff?
for there was no mastery when a woman met another woman in need
and failed to understand her need
and starting to judge her
and so how could she suppose then to give lesson of morality?

indeed, in asian countries
like it used to be in middle age in France
if a woman was unmarried and with kids
she had to raise them on their own
while having to suffer the society blame.

rules are made for individual to follow them
so that they be at ease
if somehow these rules have been broken

then, society is not meant to judge, stone, blame or become blind
to others' misery
but society as a mass consciousness is meant to make up for the lack
experienced by the individual
and provide him/her shelter
for the person punished himself/herself enough by self judgement or feeling
ashamed or having his/her dreams broken due to inconsiderate behavior of his own.

rules/advice are ok for a time
they are a kind of easy path shown to others

but if the other fails
sufficient is for him/her to bear the momentary burden and hurt
but you as part of this mass consciousness you have to move on
and help this very person when you can
bring him/her something that relieve the pain
but do not add to the burden.

it is the time of action
but people use judgement and work against each other
to give lesson as to show off their sense of responsibility of values
while they had no mastery when it had come to effective help
concrete help
when it comes to reduce your comfort in order to help someone else.
this is our two faces, this is not one face.

as an individual we follow rules
as much as it is in our capacity
but when one fails momentarily
what is needed is that collectivity/mass consciousnesses
HELP
help this person to go back to his path/track
what is the need for judgement?
does it ever repair something?
it only burdens the person while he has already punished himself
and it increases the illusion of the one who judges making him think that i have mastered the lesson i am giving others or judging them against these very standards

growth or proof of the mastery is not through words nor casting judgement upon others
it is by giving of yourself for the comfort of the other
by finding solutions which relieve the other and the society
but not that which increases the lost soul's burden
nor increase fear into the society.

Not as i wish, but as YOU wish

; )

i have been told this :

On this day of your life, petals, I believe God wants you to know...

...that life is rarely as difficult as you think it is, and

hardly ever as aggravating as humans are able to make it.

How much patience do you have with Life? Are you

willing to overcome minor obstacles as you move

through your day? Or does anything and everything

that does not move in accordance with your wishes

cause you annoyance--if not outright frustration?

Consider the possibility that the little obstacles in

life are not obstacles at all, but stepping stones. Look

to see what they offer you in terms of growth, and

you'll see their treasure.

Love, Your Friend....

Indeed, the message was true.

Into my life, some people were there with their wish to form some kind of partnership.

within i felt disharmony towards them

and could not trust them being the right kind of partners

so i was just willing them to go away

and wondering why it was not happening

for my inner call/feeling towards them was clear.

then, i read his message, 

which said, that one should love Life and learn from it

so that obstacles become opportunities for growth.

again, i read this very extract which said, 

The only journey is the journey within. 

~ Be patient with all that is in your heart 

And try to love the questions themselves. 

Do not seek for the answers that cannot be given 

For you would not be able to live them 

And the point is to live everything. 

Live the questions now and perhaps, without knowing it, 

You will live along some day into answers. 

~ The only journey is the journey within. 

~(Rainer Maria Rilke)  

yes, by wishing that something happens AS I WISH

i was just actually preventing my growth

for i wanted it and not wanting to grow 

yet, aim is to GROW

and how could one grow, if everything is given to you

while you are always in the same state?

at times it is given

for it is the period of expansion

and at other time, it is delayed

till you enter into your period of compression

and in that case, 

you have to be patient and WATCH OUT

for the hidden treasure

for your lesson 

which will make you grow.

had i just wished these persons to go away, 

and it would have happened, 

i would have never learned to turn/tune within

to test the power within

how could i have gained the certainty then, 

that the power is trustworthy?

that this very power is taking care of me?

this trust may be built on different aspects

and one by one i may need to experience them

and thus be patient/aligned with the rhythm of expansion and compression 

so that this growth fully takes place

if on the spot the partnership would have ended, 

i would not have grown

i would have only been satisfied that "i" exist and am powerful in my actual state

yet the actual state is to be transcended

growth HAS to take place

and it can ONLY if while meeting new challenges

i learn each time to find the eternal companionship within

and see how light is showered

exposing some - making the partnership go dust by itself, if the person is not standing in his true self

or freeing others - relieving them from a looming disharmony 

the former is exposed

while the latter progress and grow towards new horizons

but staying on the same level is impossible for both

both have to move on

so no one is superior to the other

except by the standard of Truth 

and the Truth has Its own rhythmic patterns

which opens or closes doors.

finally, if i do not learn to love the current situation

to love the current challenge

to love the people in spirit 

to ask them, who are present in spirit, for they ARE spirit, to remove themselves, if their physical manifestation is simply not in phase with me

then, i do not learn to consider/converse with Unity behind the diversity

and i would have only learned in that case to divide.

once we have learned to love and live the question/the issue 

then, when time has come we can learn to appreciate the answer and live it.

true, 

how may i SEE the answer

if i do not SEE the question?

if i do not LIVE the question, fully, 

considering ALL of its aspects

how could i FIND its counterpart/shades in answers?

if one wish is to be colored in the color of God

to fully awaken the beautiful names of God within

then, one has to pass through all aspects of them

the questions

will be echoed by their answers

and this one face will then be realised.

how we MOST of time are standing in the false self

i felt that i like testing people who are on spiritual path
for i wish to see if they are true

before i knew not what kind of truth in them i was searching
then, it dawn on me,
it is about them where do they STAND?

for if it is appearance only
then, just irritate the person
and he WILL get irritated
because he is standing in his false self
so when negativity hit, it hit fully
for it finds its counterpart in the person
and one can do that,
because the face, where the character of the person is reflected
is telling the other
here are my limits
and so you push the button out of the limit of the person
and see, he reacts.

but very rare, are those i met
and tried that
and they DID NOT get irritated when i was expecting them
and even never as long as i was trying and was allowed to try ; )

now i know
it is because they were standing in their TRUE self
and when one stands in the true self
as it is just AS It IS
it is true
it is not conditioned to any border
so the person inside is actually a very WIDE person
which sort of break barriers or transcend his individual body/or his perception
of what one usually identify ourselves with
body, name, old scenes of past experiences

yes people let themselves being defined by others
it suffices that one thing be repeated thrice or many times be referred to
that it solidifies into our thinking pattern
and becomes a truth
like ok ACQUIRED
and it is ME now
for i GAINED that state
ONLY because it has been repeated by MANY
and MANY TIMES

so in a way,
success and fame is dangerous for it makes you stick to an image
that you start feeling comfy with

yet, success and fame could be so FUN
as long as it is used as sharing the common feeling ON THE SPOT
and ONLY on the spot
for on the SPOT you SHARE your light and others are happy to benefit from your sun rays
but after lights went off
so if you remain there rehearsing an old play
you are totally dephased
no,
you have to use it like for adrenaline
to enter into NEW projects or UPGRADE yourself
use this self confidence and support you felt
to TRANSCEND in another area
and become WIDER

this latter one is still to be practised though.
let's see.

I seek not, I AM

Basis is that YOU ARE A COMPLETE PERSON
we do not meet people to GET something
but to SHARE something.

if you want to GET something from people
EVEN in terms of spirituality or quality or attention or of love
even in this honourable aims
it remains a corruption of attention
for you are saying implicitly to yourself
that you are NOT worthy
that you are INCOMPLETE

while if you know that you are the spirit WITHIN
then spirit is NOT incomplete
but just uncovered in your knowledge of your self.

once this being made clear in you :
you have ALL within

what for are these come and go to/with others?
it is to SHARE.
so you share what you have yourself within
of course, better is when the other also play the game
and wish to share what is in him

but if it happens not
then you keep moving
and at some point the image of your surrounding will shift
and you will find yourself stepping from one dream into another
the shift will happen without you knowing how it happened.

and when you share
you empty yourself
to be replenished by the energy again
the more you let go
the more you receive
and the velocity in your change of life will increase
so will the coincidence and not to say your own life settings
at some point i bet you will say how i am on this wave of constant change
where did it originate from?

for once we are on the ease side,
we always forget the struggle we went through behind

so let me remind you :
you suffered
and went and are going through the purification
for this very purpose :

there is ease after the hardship
there is ease after the hardship
remembering the quote? ; )

kiss to all readers : )

Projection

this is from where misunderstanding comes from
and this is also from where choice of judgement or letting go stem from.

if you talk, and someone else criticizes you
i wonder who is wrong?
the one who criticise
or you for thinking that he criticized you?

seen like this,
one has to pick up one's priority
which is to set your own self aright,
or to argue : )

so regardless of the other's own intention
yours is just to let go
for you are not responsible of his action

yet, the fact of feeling hurt
is a good proof to you
that you are not standing in the True Self

for the True Self is never hurt
so this is a great opportunity for you to see where you stand
and THEN to make the right choice
of letting go.

for if you feel hurt
it means it is from your false self
and negativity can only hit
when yourself you bear negativity/stand in the false self.

supposing that criticism has been chosen by you
even saying " i do not like him for he criticises" lol
this becomes a criticism, so in a way you are doing the thing you are reproaching the other of!


best prayer,
is to ask God to remove all those that are not of 100% of pure light from your surrounding
like this you know only good ones will remain
and you know where you are going.

for that is the issue
regularly your surrounding changes/society shifts
according to your progress
and when it does
you cannot take your surrounding as your permanent place of resting
thus you cannot trust the other as you trust the change
for yours is not to stay but to progress

so what for expecting a certain behavior from others
when you know that all is the in the progress
so your aim is to progress
whether the others follow or not is their own choice.

had you been waiting for others to progress lastly?
no, for if you had, you would have never found a new society, right?
instead, you left a society for another
following the stream of change.

and this applies also to the current society
follow your stream of change
and let others follow theirs or not.


a hint is enough for the wise
you do not need to repeat it
unless it be considered as an argument
better leave your hands off this matter

for people love to stay in their own zone of comfort
whatever name one gives to it
the only way we can see someone is open
is when he flows along
but if he becomes a barrier
then just leave him
for he has no right on you
and you has no concern for his guidance either.
for it is a false pretense, to fall into argumentation.

because it is extremely rare that two people have same goals
even if in apparence it is same, grossly speaking same
in the details or rate of progress it is never the same
so better concern only with yourself.

second good prayer is,
to ask this very divine energy of
being in charge of your defence
as this Motherly energy loves her own children
and as she is the same in you as in the other
she will know what is good for you
and thus your trust on her
will decide of the matter being handled on your behalf
hence no worries

besides,
it seems it works so :
that it suffices that she turns the light on
so that truth be favored : light upon light
or that falsehood be exposed when light is showered upon

for when basis are false, then when light comes
only the face is being show
and when it is ugly
then it is exposed.

let's make the experience
and see how it turns out.
for once, no need to do some planning/ thinking
this person is good or that one is bad
let us test the power
and see how it works for you
and how everything could be exposed.

this can work out only under the condition
of you not being judgemental
otherwise you do not choose innocence
and in that case, you are in charge and will have to bear the consequences of it too.

Kun Fayakun - Be and it is

So beautiful song,
here are the complete lyrics :

Hindi Song: Kun Faaya Kun Movie or Album: Rockstar Singer(s): A. R. Rahman, Javed Ali, Mohit Chauhan Music Director(s): A. R. Rahman

Hindi Lyrics

ya nizamuddin auliya ya nizamuddin salka
kadam badha le haddon ko mita le
aaja khalipan mein pee ka ghar tera
tere bin khaali aaja khaalipan mein - 2

rangreza - 4
kun faaya kun kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun - 2
(jab kahin pe kuch nahin bhi nahin tha
wahi tha wahi tha wahi tha wahi tha) - 2
(woh jo mujh mein samaaya, woh jo tujh mein samaaya
maula wahin wahi maaya) - 2
kun faaya kun kun faaya kun sadaq allahu al ali al ajim

rangreza rang mera tann mera mann le le rangaai chahe tann chahe mann - 2
sajra savera mere tan barse kajra andhera teri jaan ki lau - 2
katra mila jo tere dar barse
o maula, maula
(kun faaya kun kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun - 2 faaya kun faaya kun) - 2
jab kahin pe kuch nahin bhi nahin tha wahi tha wahi tha wahi tha wahi tha - 2
kun fayakun kun fayakun
sadaq allahu al ali al ajim sadaq rasur-hul nabhi karim 
salallah hu alayhi wasallam salallah hu alayhi wasallam
ho mujhpe karam sarkar tera araj tujhe kar de mujhe
mujhse hi riha ab mujhko bhi ho didar mera
kar de mujhe mujhse hi riha, mujhse hi riha
mann ke mere yeh bharam kachche mere yeh karam
leke chale hain kahaan main to jaanu hi na
tu hai mujh mein samaaya kahaan leke mujhe aaya
main hoon tujh mein samaaya tere peeche chala aaya
tera hi main ek saaya tune mujhko banaya
main toh jag ko naa bhaaya
tune gale se jagaya haq tu hi hai khudaya
sacch tu hi hai khudaya aa
kun faaya kun kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun faaya kun - 2

jab kahin pe kuch nahin bhi nahin tha wahi tha wahi tha wahi tha wahi tha - 2
kun faaya kun kun faaya kun 
sadaq allahu al ali al ajim sadaq rasur-hul nabhi hikari

Power of hidden part

yes,

when you look at nature one day
and come back the next day
or even a few days after,

you DO SEE it has CHANGED
it is never same


yet, with human beings
it is not so
we can see each other after a week
and yet our face/light or lack of it
is still the same, if not worse

even for yogis
if their energy/kundalini/power of divine love
has indeed awakened
which it has
it should change you
each week your face should be more beautiful than the week before
and your innocence should shine

if this happens not
if change is not witnessed
then something is not ok
with your love
it is not growing
your are making as we say in french "sur-place"
you sort of keep staying on what you are
feeding yourself day after day with the same acquired bread
how could you change?
it is because you love so much the apparent
that you have forgotten the hidden

the flowers grow in their appearance
because their hidden part is feeding them
the hidden part becomes integrated in the flower
and is continuously being transformed
into the apparent
this is how the light keeps flowing
and change keeps the wheel turning

stinginess, or fears
is what blocks us
the pure love keeps purifying us
but if we keep diving into the same mud
the purification cannot bring higher change
for this power is busy into purifying us from our same old habits

to witness a new change
we should totally change ourselves
stretch our hands to that which is out of our comfort zone
so that it gets a chance to be transformed
this is the refinement of our hidden energy
transformed
to shine more on our face.

if you love only the apparent, then you think you are only that,
then, most of your time is stuck/devoted to the apparent side of yours
then,
you cannot feed the hidden one of yours
and thus NEVER change will come up into our life
and even less significant growth
which would make you change as nature keeps changing and shining in its beauty.

this is the meaning of loving too much the world/dunia.

where your attention is,
is where you are.

if your attention is on purification and growth
and not mixed with old habits
then, only then, could significant change
would happen,
like nature testifies for us
about that natural law.

That which is not

someone said :

"i used to frequent people due to their cv,
for i cared for listed qualities,
but something was missing.

the other one asked :

what was missing?

and it was answered,
that which was not on the list."

this hit me,
the apparent vs the hidden
and sometimes
the hidden is that which attention is most needed on

it is that which heart yearn for
while eyes see not

and in a way,
it is like eyes are jealous of the heart
for heart can see that which eyes cannot.

so i seek for that which is not on the list

one has to close eyes
to devote time to find it
otherwise it will remain a word.

yes and it is like
when you turn at the apparent
to find guidance
it cannot guide you to the hidden
for the apparent is not the hidden

and yet, in a hidden way, lol;
it CAN guide you
for the apparent and the hidden
both comes from the SAME source.