The Mariage of True Minds

 Decidely

Unless we speak from experience 

then it is only words or theory.

But when one shares in words 

about the experience of our own

it is still theory for the reader.

Anyway,

with clarity yesterday it dawn on me

the importance of quickly Letting Go, ie forgiving.

Life is short

Time should be used as it is gold 

only on that which matter to our growth 

mine is on creativity nowadays.

Yet when I keep thinking about the whys and why nots 

of extended family members which are not really behaving in a loving way

then I am putting in myself a block.

Firstly, by not using time for something creative and valuable to me

Secondly, by wasting my power on petty matters which would drain me of my time and energy 

which obviously won't be allocated to the above.

This is not by all means a petty matter.

Because then, this attitude becomes a habit and a bad mannered obsession.

Even though we know initially, we are just toying and playing with thoughts,

at the end the thoughts become our box and we are jailed and limited by it.

As density definitely jails us.

That feeling being considered.

I quickly let go and forgave.

Which creates a space in mind and emptiness.

As the other party is forgiven 

it cannot hook onto me anymore

as it exists no more in my fractal universe within.

And as it is incapable of pure love

then there is nothing for it to hook onto.

Either way.

This is how forgiveness is your best protection.

Not forgiving creates a bridge for the other party to send its thoughts to you

which are not fruitful to you.

And love being rarely existant, you can't expect anything good coming.

Hence you are free to look for that elsewhere 

as your attention is free.

Finally; the second insight which dawn upon me

is that each era has its building block and focal point.

In this era, family, mariage and children is the last of them.

Expansion is the first and foremost.

People marry for a lesser gain 

than if they were to cultivate themselves for the ultimate freedom.

In no way, I can see, in this era, a greater benefit in marriage which is more like for most people

trying to fill up a void or just follow the tradition.

Hence even in this era, benefit is mostly found out of family

Family being karma

after a while and stage of growth 

you need to expand your branches out 

to exchange and water and be watered by such wondful creative people

the world is filled with.

Only self created shackles to cater for comfort and security 

have become the very means of our slavery to a very boring an dull routine 

in the least or of useless headaches in the worst case scenario.

The blessings of a true marriage of souls exist

but does not need the form to exist

as the Spirit does not need the body to Be

though it is necessary for Itself to be expressed through it.

Likewise Spirit does not need a paper; religious, ritualist mariage to exist

as it is neither a cause nor a consequence of forms 

and always pre existed and will continue to post exist these

Yet it is the Key to the growth and sanctity of a mariage.

But if you lack the sanctity and the intention of self improvement 

based on the Let go/forgiveness which is the ultimate condition for final purification 

you cannot benefit from any form be it mariage or family

they too would fail despite having initially taken the Spirit as Witness to their form.

Because Spirit is not bound by the forms

but is there to bless the forms.

And if we take no responsibility 

to clear the way by forgiving

the path will always remain blocked

and the mud will keep accummulating.

Two pools of mud getting married 

can only create more mess really.

Again, this is in worst case scenario; 

In the best scenario, they would be blessed with growth 

if the above is followed.

Unfortunately, I never saw two people 

being identified as Spirit after mariage

but rather being identified as husband and wife

as parents as other one or two roles at best if they have grown wider.

But it dawns now on me

wouldn't it be beautiful 

to witness a mariage of True Minds?

as Shakespeare would say.

Let it be no impediement to the mariage of True Minds.

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Sonnet 116: Let me not to the marriage of true minds 

BY WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE

Let me not to the marriage of true minds 

Admit impediments. Love is not love 

Which alters when it alteration finds, 

Or bends with the remover to remove. 

O no! it is an ever-fixed mark 

That looks on tempests and is never shaken; 

It is the star to every wand'ring bark, 

Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken. 

Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks 

Within his bending sickle's compass come; 

Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks, 

But bears it out even to the edge of doom. 

If this be error and upon me prov'd, 

I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

When I think of it

That Sonnet I did bear it to the edge of doom.

That definitely, the Spirit knows.

But as a Phoenix I have risen ... again.

That I can say, 

I was truly reborn and given a new life.

Waiting now; for my ultimate rebirth.