i like making gifts to people around me
because when you make a gift
it is a token of yourself that can be seen
in the eyes of the receiver
so in a way you materialise yourself
to the other in a way that matches his level
while when you are a whole person lol
it is so funny to write it
but when you are a whole person
you can't really be seen as you are
so gifts bring people closer
so that they be able to see each other
second, it makes me feel fulfilled in the belly
when i can create the dreamt reality of the other
that gives me real joy
that they can believe in their dreams
and verify their belief
this is appreciativeness
which is always there for the observer
be he the giver or the receiver
but when this becomes a habit
a tradition
an expected order
then it is no more sincere,
because it is no more appreciable
yes you do not have anymore the SPACE
to create your joy ahead of time
while preparing the gift
nor you have the joy to receive it
because you have lost the value of it
and you only expect it your right to have it
so when you already know
being the receiver or the giver of the gift
then, there is no more joy
so the key is in being free
free of giving and receiver whenever you wish
based on this simple rule
it can change greatly yourself
not only in terms of "material" gifts
but also a word, a behavior, an attitude
all of these are gifts to the other
on a more subtle plane
so if one follows this rule to the end
just this one
it makes one automatically see
that life is a challenge
for this will lead you
to go against your own
tradition, societal rules and so on
and your life can change
as quickly as you are ready to change
just to follow up one rule
to give gifts
only when it serves your joy
:)
